Living the asexual life

I'm the most asexual person you will ever meet

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can we stop acting like asexual people dont exist. can we stop trying to get allos to accept us more by conveniently leaving out aromantic and sex-repulsed individuals in our explanations of asexuality

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if you want to ask a bisexual or asexual person about their sexual history to verify that they’re queer, but you don’t want them to take it the wrong way, try this useful communication technique:

give them twenty dollars and go away.

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yeah but will the internet stop thinking that saying “i ship them romantically” means “i want them to have hot, hot sex” like surprise!!!! asexuals exist

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The Invisible Orientation: An Introduction to Asexuality (review)


So if you haven’t heard, Julie Sondra Decker (or swankivy, as you might know her on the internet) wrote a book on asexuality that is coming out on September 2!  Here are a bunch of places you can order it.  I was fortunate enough to receive an advance copy to review, so here goes!*

Overall, this book is excellent.  It is pretty much everything you could want from a 101 asexuality book.  It’s easy to read, it’s well-organized, it has so much information, and it would be equally appropriate to hand to your professor, your partner, your parent, and your questioning best friend.

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